No process or product looked or felt perfect during its transitioning to becoming. During the transition, one might act at times out of joy and at times out of pain. In this process, don’t forget we ourselves are transitioning into our being. When we are not fully ourselves, we experience pain. Judgement towards one or self comes from a desperate need to numb our own pain. Judgement is a slow poison which inflicts more harm to the existing pain. Categorizing someone or self into a category, only limits and delays our own finding of our self. If we are carrying a judgement/view/opinion for self or the other, then we are indeed still in transitioning and not yet fully formed/become.
Pain has a special purpose in our lives. Painful emotion shows us the path to an aspect of us that needs healing. Don’t numb it! When we numb our pain with blame/judgement/distractions, we are denying ourselves of the ecstasy we experience from becoming more and more of who we are. So address the pain, feel it and heal it! Everything that we heal becomes a joy! And every joy that we add transforms into what we call as Ecstasy (with full awareness)! (Isn’t that what we all seek at the core? Actually be in the state of ecstasy without inducing an external drug or distraction?)
Remind yourself very kindly every time you feel a pain (any emotion that which is not pure joy) that you are experiencing the growing pains of expanding and becoming of your full potential, and so is everyone else!
We (and they) are neither nice nor not nice, we all are just who we are in transitioning to becoming!
Love, Light & Peace,
Prashanthi (Pure Peace)